Saturday, June 6, 2009

bioethical and humanism programme...

  1. justice
  2. autonomy
  3. beneficence
  4. non-malficence
what are those 4 words above mean??? hmm...no need to explain i think but those 4 are the basic ethical principle in becoming a doctor...my lecturer said, "always remembered that 4 principals"
insyaAllah, i'll remember n practise in when doing my job...

tapi x sah klu lecture x diselangi dgn agenda2 atau isu lain...
1st case for CVS is about Tetralogy of Fallot (TOF) which is a congenital heart defect, meaning occur because of 1 of these 3 factors:
  1. genetic
  2. environment
  3. interaction of genetic and environment
she told bout her experience...
"after i've done the echocardiography, it shows that her child had that kind of disease (if i'm not mistake)...so for the solution, her child need to undergo a surgery...then the mother asked, how much it cost?? then she said, it will cost about 70juta rupiah...then??? what happened?? the mother fainted....huhu...

you know what?? it is difficult to break a bad news...she said there were 7 steps in breaking the bad news...but i don't know how...(hehe..) maybe i'll learn next time...

then doctor advice us, "same goes if you want to find your spouse...there are also 3 principles:
  1. genetic (history for any hereditary disease i think)
  2. soul (iman, peribadi, perilaku)
  3. good job (good economical status, punya pangkat)
BERTUKAR KE BAHASA MELAYU (BAHASA KEBANGGAANKU)!!!!!!!!!!!

saya sebagai wanita hari ini tidak merasakan ciri2 di atas itu terlalu keterlaluan...siapa yang tidak mahu bersuamikan seorang yang sempurna di mata kita...??walaupun manusia memang tiada yang sempurna, tetapi kita hidup seharusnya untuk saling melengkapi....
  • andai kata lelaki berpangkat besar, baik keturunannya, tetapi iman di dada tidak cukup kuat untuk membimbing bakal isteri???? bagaimana bisa mencipta keluarga bahagia???
  • andai kata beriman, tetapi hanya terlalu berserah kepada Allah supaya diturunkan rezeki dari langit tanpa secebis usaha??? bagaimana mahu menyara keluarga, membesarkan anak2 dan menjaga kebajikan isteri dan keluarga??
kalau lelaki2 di luar sana menganggap wanita2 di zaman sekarang terlalu meminta2, itu terserah...memang diciptakan perempuan itu lemah dan harus ada lelaki untuk melindungi...
TETAPI!!!
tanpa lelaki tidak bermakna wanita itu rapuh...mudah untuk diperkotak-katikkan...

sebelum mengundur diri, fikirkan ayat yang dipetik dari buku motivasi hasil tulisan dr.H.M Tuah Iskandar:

"woman, without her man, is nothing...."

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"woman, without her, man is nothing..."

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